I suffer from a very common mental illness called bi-polar disorder. This is also
called manic-depressive by some people. Simply stated bi-polar disorder means that
sometimes you are very excited and your mind is going really fast, and sometimes,
your really slow and depressed, and sometimes both. That's the basic description.
But from the inside it feels a little worse than it sounds. Im writing this
here so that I don't have to repeat myself, and so that people might learn a little
about a disease that effects a very large portion of the population. We as a society
have completely ignored mental illness on the whole. People don't want to think
about it. I don't know why that is, but of course Im crazy, so i wouldn't know :)
Bipolar disorder, from my point of view, is not a great thing. Because so many great minds
were mentally ill, mental illness in a way has been glorified. But it destroys far more minds
and lives, than it improves. I am a rapid-cycler, which does not mean I ride my bike fast. It
means my 'moods' or phases switch very quickly, but mine tend to be hypmanic or manic, rather
than depressed. I have experienced severe depression but only a few times. More often my
problems are phsychosis (disjointed thoughts, hallucinations, delusions, like a bad lsd trip),
and mania. When I become manic, which is often for me, but rare for bi-polars in general, I
become psychotic. Almost each time.
I have been in treatment for this disease for 10 years, since I was first diagnosed at the
age of 14. I have taken so many different medications I can't count them all. The side effects
from some of the medications I have been given, are sometimes far worse than the disease itself.
But a lot has happened in this particular field of study in the last 5 or 6 years, and the
medications are better than they used to be. This disease inteferes with each and every facet of my life. It causes serious problems
maintianint a long-term relationship. It makes it impossible for me to do any kind of work
on a regualr basis. It makes it very hard to be a father to my children.
I have only recently (since june of 2000) been facing the fact that I have multiple personalities. The country is divided into two groups of thought about this disorder, which is fitting, considering its nature :) The first theory is called Multiple Personality Disorder. In this theory , the mind
of a child under the average age of 5.6 is traumatized, and the brain responds by allowing
the personality to dissapear into the subconsious. When this happens a void is created, and
the void must be filled, so the brain fills it with a second personality. Once the subconsious
learns how to use this as a coping mechanism, it begins to create many personalities to
deal with different situations. People can have as few as 2 personalities, and as many as
two or three hundred. Being an MPD, This is the theory I believe, because im living it. I
also have the advantage of being a bipolar, which will make sence later. The second and most recent school of thought is that multiples arent really multiple
at all. In fact multiple personalities has been taken out of the medical references and
replaced with the new diagnosis D.I.D.. In this theory, the person does exactly the same
thing as mentioned above, accept they are aware of what is happening. They are simply
one personality, that convinces themselves that they are more than one person to make
that part of themselves which is uncomfortable easier to deal with. In this school of
thought MPD is considered a delusion. Now a bit more on why I think MPD is real and DID is a false assumption. First a little
history on why DID came about in the first place. When the movie cybil came out some years
ago, everyone all of a suddon started having MPD. Doctors were incorrectly diagnosing it
all over the place. People with MPD are extremly easy to hypnotize. Now in that time, the
basic idea of treatment was regressive theropy, in which the paitent is hypnotized and
past memories are retrieved. Recently two things have happened. First, the person that
the movie was made after has come out and publicly stated that she was making the whole
thing up for attention. Secondly, false memory syndrome was discovered. Confused yet?
ok Im going on anyway :) Anyway I don't believe that MPD does not exist. I *DO* believe DID exists, but I also
believe in MPD because I have it. How do I know Im not delusional? Simple, im bipolar. Bipolars
are prone to delusions. I've had a whole bunch of them. I know the difference between a
hallucination and a delusion, and the other personalities dont fit into either of those
categories. Unfortunately I am poor (being disabled makes it hard to get a pay check), and
social security is taking for-ever to make up their minds as to weather or not im actually
disabled so I havn't been able to seek any qualified treatment for this problem. For now
all I know personally, is that it is the reason I've had so many black outs. A black out,
as most people know is time loss, you are sitting in one place in 1996, and the next thing
you know your in a whole different city in 1998, walking down the street. I've also
discovered things in my possesion, that I did not purchase and have no idea where they
came from. Things have come in the mail, for me, that I did not order. I've found my
signature in someone elses handwriting on a few things. As far as I know, I have
17 personalities, 3 of which are female. There may well be more personalities that I
am not aware of. Most of these 17 I am only aware of because of the evidence they have
left behind, or because family members have met them. I am 'co-aware' with some of them
meaning I know what they are thinking, and have access to their memories. Recently, three
of my personalities have merged to become what I am now. So, as you can see, Im pretty messed up. :) BUT, when i was 13, I commited suicide.
God saved me miraculously, and I was born again at that time. I have been studying Gods
word ever since then , and I know that he is going to heal me soon. The simple fact
that I am still alive, is proof in Gods existance. |